If you have ever been in love you know the feelings involved when you
first fall in love. Everything seems to be a little better, the sun
shines a little brighter, your coworkers don’t seem to bother you as
much as they used to, that obnoxious man at Starbucks doesn’t seem to
get to you quite as bad as he did before. Everything is amazing when you
fall in love. I like to think that it blurs the negatives of life even
just for a second.
I think every girl knows the feeling when just a touch from him sends
a chill through your whole body and it’s something that you begin to
crave. Hearing his voice on the phone makes you melt, and seeing him
makes your heart beat a little faster. Is it selfish of us to want this
to last forever?
I want to believe that there is a way to make the “honeymoon” stage
last in a relationship for longer than just a few months. From the time
when you first profess your love to each other until the end.
How do you fall in love over and over again?
1. Set time aside for each other.
You don’t have to make this date night every night, but watch a movie
together. Talk on the phone
if you can’t see them. Let them know that
you can’t get them off your mind.
2. Don’t focus on the negatives; focus on all of their positives.
When you only focus on the negatives of a person or relationship you
forget all the positive things. Like the way he knows all the right
things to say when you are upset. The way he can make you feel better
just by telling you he loves you. These are the things that can be
forgotten when you are the middle over a fight. Don’t throw all the
great times away for something insignificant.
3. Remember what made you fall in love with him in the beginning.
What made you say those magic 3 words the first time? What made you decide that they were the one you plan on being with?
4. Flirt with them
As much as men hate to admit it, they love getting flirty text
messages in the morning to wake up to. Tell him how sexy he looks in his
uniform before he goes to work in the morning. Tell him how much you
love being able to call him yours. Tell him you can’t think of spending
one day without him. It will make him for sure happy and fall in love.
Men love being complimented, and something as easy as a good morning
text, or a sweet comment will make him fall in love, again.
5. Learn to forgive and let go
Yes, we all make mistakes. But we are human! We are going to fall
short of expectations sometimes, but that’s what this about. You are
meant to be his cheerleader. The person he can come to when he had a bad
day. Men, you are meant to be her shoulder to cry on, her rock to
assure her that she is always going to have someone to fall back on. So
maybe he will forget to tell you your new outfit is stunning on you, but
the other 30 you bought he remembered to tell you just how lucky he is
to have you as his own and how gorgeous you are. Sometimes men need a
break and we all know they aren’t the best at noticing things. (Eh-hem,
that hint you dropped about that really pretty necklace you saw at the
mall last week.)
6. Let them know you love them, every time you can.
I get it, sometimes you think they just know that you love them and
you don’t have to tell them all the time. Come on, we all love hearing
it. Just make sure not to just say it out of habit, but every time you
say it, you mean it. If you don’t get that spark when you say you love
him, you need to rethink why you are saying it. It is so easy for us to
just say something we know they want to hear and take it for granted.
But when you truly mean something, you should feel like you mean it. You
should feel the butterflies in your stomach, see that little twinkle in
your eye. That is what love is all about.
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