Friday 24 April 2015

7 Unexpectedly Negative Things That Happen When You Fall In Love



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There are so many things people tell you about love: It’s amazing, it’s life-changing, it will make you smile till your cheeks fall off, it means constant foot rubs and flowers (ha, we wish). Really, love is a beautiful experience but over the years I have come to learn there are things about love they forgot to tell us. There are some things about love they left out, because once you fall in love…

1. You no longer know the meaning of a “good night’s sleep.”

Suddenly you have a new body pillow and this one snores, farts, and takes up the entire bed. You

Monday 20 April 2015

How to Fix a Relationship That’s Falling Apart

 

A relationship, just like everything else in life, needs care and attention. Many couples overlook this detail and end up unhappy in a perfect relationship. Find out how to fix a relationship and turn things around.

Figuring out how to fix a relationship is a lot like stacking a deck of cards. There are so many different cards involved and it’s really difficult to know where exactly the balance went awry.
Just like a stack of cards, in almost all cases, it’s never a single reason that leads to a failure in love.
It’s a series of disappointments and resentments that lead to an unhappy relationship.

But nevertheless, it really doesn’t have to be the end of the relationship. Even the unhappiest of relationships can be fixed with a bit of understanding and love.
How to fix a relationship
If you still love your partner and are willing to work on your relationship, read these five simple

Easy ways to make your relationship stronger


How to make your relationship better These five quick tips will make any relationship stronger. If you’re fed up of fighting, tired of trust issues or just plain bored, read these five tips to make your relationship better: Make your relationship better by addressing old issues Fights, jealousy and previous misdemeanours upset our little bubble of romance and can make relationships a tricky minefield. If you find yourself constantly arguing over the same issues, or blowing up in anger over the smallest of triggers, it may be because you and your partner have not addressed some old issues. Next time this happens, try to stay calm and work out why you have reacted in this way. If you recognise that you are angry about something that has happened in the past it is time to be brave

**THE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP**:

The success of a relationship is tied to the willingness of the parties involved to shift ground in order to accommodate each other and be ready to take the person for who He or She is. Relationship can really be exciting if properly nurtured. IN ORDER WORDS;... THE FOLLOWING ARE REQUIRED IN A BLISSFUL RELATIONSHIP:
 •Love
 •Communication
 •Understanding
 •Discipline
 •Commitment
 •Mutual Respect
 •Forgiveness
 •Trust
 •Patience
 •Know Your Role
 •Appreciation THE AFFORD MENTIONED IF CAREFULLY PRACTICED, IS CAPABLE OF TAKING YOU TO A HAPPY HOME KNOWN AS (Marriage). Don't die in silence, these are what you need to make your relationship meaningful. May God Help us not to fall a victim of a bad relationship. TYPE A BIG AMEN TO CLAIM THIS WONDERFUL PRAYER

5 qualities that women look for in men


How to attract a woman When it comes to attracting the fairer sex, sometimes you’re hit with the sudden realisation that women really are from planet Venus, and bear no resemblance to the ill-informed species that inhabits planet Mars. How the planet earth are you to catch her eye? Here’s the confused guy’s guide to attracting women.

 Male quality 1: He is honest and loyal Prove to your love interest that you are kind, honest, and loyal – a genuinely charming fellow, some may say. Terms such as ‘love rat’ and ‘dirt bag’ weren’t made up just for a laugh you know. Many women have had the unfortunate experience of dating

5 Types Of Guys Who Are Definitely NOT Marriage Material

Does your man have long-term potential?
In general, women tend to rely on words, whereas men rely on actions. So, when men speak sweetly to women, women believe them, even if they don't behave accordingly. Men, on the other hand, see how women behave, and interpret the behavior to mean what they want to believe, regardless of what the woman says. So, if you say you don't love him, but continue to have sex with him, all your words are in vain; he interprets your actions and draws his own conclusions.
This discrepancy between words and behavior is especially problematic in marriage-bound relationships. So, watch out if your man is one of these five types:
1. The "help me until I'm ready" guy. The "need help" type is totally entrenched in his own insecurities. He only talks about his own problems — never yours — but he wants a lady by his side because it makes him feel worthy. So, he keeps her there by asking her to help him "until he's ready." But, guess what: He'll never be ready, and so, he is not husband material.

Sunday 19 April 2015

How to Find a Life Partner


We all want to find a partner we can share our life with who loves us and we love him / her. Most of us do not make a plan to make this happen. Why is this ? We plan to buy a car, a house, to have children, to get a job we love... but not to find our life partner. Perhaps it's time we start planning to achieve one of the most important dream in life: who to share our life with.
Steps
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Make your own personal Mantra, like 'I am beautiful. I deserve love'. You know this to be true when you are in love because you feel it. When you not in love or you have fallen out of love you might not feel it. As it comes from the inside we need something from the inside to make us feel beautiful again.

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How to Talk Dirty To a Guy And Sound Really Sexy!

Talking dirty to a guy isn’t as hard as it seems. In fact, understanding how to talk dirty to a guy can be the easiest thing if you know these 10 tips. By Morgan Miller

Most girls want to talk dirty with their boyfriends.
But many of them just don’t know what to say.
Really, what is talking dirty anyway?
We’ve all heard about it, and we’ve all heard that sex feels a lot sexier and dirtier while talking dirty.
But what is talking dirty all about and how can you get better at that?
To be quite truthful, talking dirty to a guy isn’t as complicated as most girls assume it to be.

How to Win a Girl’s Heart and Impress Her much

Want to impress the girl you like and have fun doing it? Find out how to win a girl’s heart and impress her effortlessly using these 9 surefire ways. By Ethan Kent

Winning a girl’s heart takes effort.
It isn’t about saying what’s on your mind to the girl you like.
In fact, it’s the other way around.
The art of winning a girl’s heart is all about making the girl you like fall in love with you without telling her that you like her in the first place.

How to Ask a Guy Out Like a Classy Girl

 

Find yourself falling for a cute guy, but just don’t know how to ask him out without sounding desperate? Read this guide on how to ask a guy out the classy girl way!

It’s easy to ask a guy out, but you should avoid doing that. Find out why.
If you like someone and want to ask a guy out, just drop a few hints.
And if he’s interested in you, he’s definitely going to ask you out before you ask him out.
But at times, life can be a tad more complicated than we want it to be. And at times like these, a girl has no choice but to make the first move.
You may have just broken up with this guy’s best friend, both of you could be old buddies , or there may be some other complicated reason.
During times like these, you could drop a few hints, but even if he thinks you like him, he may be

Saturday 18 April 2015

13 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys...GUYS READ THIS PLS



1. They completely forget women have a sexual side to them. Just because someone is nice doesn’t mean they’re going to be a good partner or that they’re the right fit. Nice guys think simply because they’re nice a girl should want date them. They don’t get it takes a whole lot of other qualities and factors to make sexual chemistry and dating happen.

Friday 17 April 2015

18 Things That Happen When You’ve Been With The Same Person Forever


1. Privacy goes right out the window. Bathroom doors stop shutting. Hemorrhoid cream and Vagisil appear on a shared grocery list. You ask questions like, “Can you check out my vagina and tell me if you see redness or something?” It’s inevitable, I guess.
3. Discussing said dreams – future home, number of offspring, kids’ names, etc. – becomes a shameless pastime. There’s no fear of judgment. No shame. No games. You both know you’re forever.

4. Obsessing over personal hygiene becomes a thing of the past. He’s seeing you without any makeup? Whatever. Haven’t shaved your legs in a week or two? No big deal.

23 Must-Know Relationship Advice for Women

Love isn’t complicated or painful. In fact, it’s effortless. As long as you keep these 23 must-know tips and relationship advice for women in mind.

Are you having a hard time in love?
Do you find yourself getting frustrated by your man to no end?
Or do you worry your man isn’t into you the way he once was?

Thursday 16 April 2015

5 Things You Don’t Want To Hear After Losing Your Virginity

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I’ve been thinking about losing my virginity for a month and I recently decided to lose my virginity to an amiable gorgeous young man from another continent. As a twenty-something female living a quite boring and bookish life in the city, I was naturally excited to impart the information to some of my closest friends.
But I didn’t expect to hear things I didn’t want to hear at all – let alone have to answer them.

How was it?

The ideal answer would be this: it was beautiful, meaningful, hot, and mind-blowingly amazing. There were candles, silk sheets, and lots of lovely romantic words. We cried together after our mutual climax because the universe is magnificent but we are bound together by something sacred.
Or some kind of answer that paints the first time as the best time EVER because, yay sex! But that’s not always the case.
Asking this question gives me the impression that the first time should have been über-special, and it makes me feel like I have to romanticize and invent details that weren’t there. Just to convince myself and others that the first time was beyond perfect.
But it’s not.

25 Guys Reveal The Most Cringeworthy Thing A Girl Ever Did During Sex

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1. The Dick-scalping

The worst thing is when girls try to give a really intense handjob. That’s the worst thing. Don’t try to skin it. Please no. P-P-Please.
Eric, 21

2. The Knee-Jerk

While going down on me, she grabbed me around the balls, squeezed, twisted a bit and yanked down. Hard. Like she thought my scrotum was a rubber band that would bounce back. The reflexive jerk put my knee into her face, and that was pretty much the end of that.
Ryan, 26

3. The Bad Ass-Play Ask

One time, a girl was so insistent on wanting to eat my ass. We were doing some ordinary stuff, like 69’ing or whatever, and she says “turn around, I wanna eat your ass,” and I’m like “umm probably not.” She said, “let me do it don’t be weird, it’s fun,” and I’m like “yeah probably but another time,” and then she slapped my dick. And then she slapped me in the face. Honestly, I liked it, but the insistence was weird at first.
Aaron, 20

4. The Risky Pull


Sex Advice From A Gay Man Who’s Never Had Sex

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Q: I am about to have sex for the first time with a girl I have been dating for a while. The problem is that I haven’t shaved my pubes in about two weeks. Should I shave them again and risk having some bad stubble burns or let it go bushy?

A: The best remedy to this situation is to light a small gas lantern at night and place it in your window sill. Then count to 46 seven times. If you feel foolish after doing so, you probably should shave your pubes. If you don’t feel that foolish, you shouldn’t shave your pubes. However, you may repeat the counting until you do feel foolish, in which case you will have to shave your pubes anyways. You can really do anything if you put your mind to it.

Q: I think that my little sister is having sex with my current boyfriend. She told me that they are very close. My boyfriend and I are both 27 and my sister just turned 20. How can I fix this relationship?

A: Is there anything to fix? Do you know everything about what is going on? Are you comfortable

Wednesday 15 April 2015

How to Satisfy a Woman in Bed and Make Sex Exciting

 

Want to keep your sex life on a high all the time? Use these 15 tips on how to satisfy a woman in bed and you’ll know what it takes to keep it exciting. By Francesca Marie from lp

Satisfying a woman in bed isn’t an art.
All it takes is a deeper understanding of your partner and her needs.
As long as you put your partner’s sexual needs ahead of yours, and remember to keep sex fresh, your sex life will stay exciting and alive for a long time to come.

How to satisfy a woman in bed

5 Reasons Why Loving Someone Too Much Kills the Love

 

Can you ever love someone too much? As exciting as a new relationship can be, smothering a lover with your affection will do more damage than good! By Lianne Choo

Contrary to love stories, chick flicks and epic poems, there is such a thing as loving someone too much. If you do not know when to stop smothering someone, you run the risk of pushing your newfound love away.
Many people are addicted to loving too much and smothering a partner without even realizing it. And while they do this, they ignore all the warning signs, and are completely taken off guard when their partner leaves them.
You need to remember that as exciting as being in a new relationship is, you have to watch your step. Although there is nothing wrong with showering your partner with love, there is a fine line between being attentive and smothering.

What Do Women Want From Men in a Relationship?

A woman may want many things in a man, but if there are a few things that make a difference, this is it. So what do womenwant from men? Find out here

It’s not easy to please a woman.

Or that’s what many men who have lost in love think.
Pleasing a woman isn’t just about catering to her whims.
In reality, understanding what women want from men is all about realizing what it takes to be a good man and even better company.
If you can understand what it takes to become a better man, you’d surely understand what women

50 Really Cute Things to Say to Your Girlfriend

Want to make your girlfriend go awww? Here are 50 cute things to say to your girlfriend that can bring a happy blush on her face when she hears you. By Keith Brown FROM LP

Impressing a girl and pursuing her may the first step in charming a girl and getting her to go out with you.
But a relationship is more than just the chase.
And as much as the big shows of affection matter in a relationship, it’s the little things that really count.

Cute things to say to your girlfriend

Monday 13 April 2015

25 Cute Names To Call Your Boyfriend

Are you looking for cute names to call your boyfriend or lover? Does the idea of being overly cutsie make you feel all warm and squishy inside?

Maybe you just really want to annoy your guy with an adorable pet name to call him in front of his friends? Well, you’re in luck! Here are 25 cute names to call your boyfriend.
Everyone has a pet name for their lover, even if it’s only in the bedroom. But when “Baby” and “honey” get a little old, what’s a girl to do? Have no fear, we’ve come up with twenty-five pet names guaranteed to make everyone else around you feel nauseated and annoyed.

#1 Snookums

snookums
One of the cutest pet names ever to be uttered by a woman or a man is “snookums.” This pet name is not only guaranteed to get an audible moan of disgust from anybody around you who is not in a relationship, but it’s also fun to say. Go ahead, say it a few times… it sort of just rolls off the tongue, doesn’t it?


#2 Honey Buns

Now, let me ask you this: What could possibly be better than calling your guy “honey buns” as you smack him lightly on the ass and smile? If he’s got any kind of sense of humor he’ll laugh at your

Actions Speak Louder than Words: 14 Ways to Show Your Love



He may not feel your love until you really make an effort to put your love into action. For most people, actions speak louder than words, so prove yourself.


If you feel some distance between you and your loved one, saying the three magic words won’t cut it, and nothing can bring you closer than showing your love. Here are some ways to back up your words with actions. Words are powerful, but people will only buy them if they are backed up with substance. If you say you’re a great partner, you must also be one. So what makes a great partner anyway?
Let’s look at some habits you can break that don’t help this problem, and some new ones you can make to put your words into action. After all, actions speak louder than words.

1. Bring positive energy to every day


25 Signs and Qualities That Make a Great Boyfriend... gUYS READ THIS

Are you wondering if your boyfriend’s as good as you hope he is? Use these 25 signs and qualities of a great boyfriend to find out how good he really is. By Francesca Marie

A great boyfriend isn’t easy to find.
And even if you do find him, almost always, he’s already in someone else’s arms.
But have you ever wondered what really separates an average boyfriend from a great one?
Well, there are a few qualities and traits that can help you figure that out.
Finding your perfect boyfriend
All of us have flaws, and it would be silly to believe that we’re all perfect.
So when you go looking for a great guy, make sure you have what it takes to be a great girl yourself!
Guys and girls have their own flaws.

20 Things You Can Do to Get Your Woman in the Mood

 

Are you running out of sexy and naughty ideas to keep things exciting in bed? Use these 20 ideas to get your woman in the mood, for now and forever! By Nathan Richer

Guys, let’s be honest here for a second.
In the majority of your relationships, you and your girl want sex just as much in the beginning, but as time goes on, you start to see a pattern.
And that pattern is you asking more and more for sex, while your once sex-crazed girlfriend turning you down more often.
It wouldn’t be bad if it stopped there, but all of a sudden, your woman probably doesn’t even attempt to initiate sex anymore!
On one hand, you’re worried she may turn you down for sex when you initiate it, and on the other, even when she allows you to get on top of her, she just seems too disinterested in the whole thing.

Are you doing something wrong?

HOW TO MAKE YOUR GIRL OR WOMAN FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU MORE

 

Want to make your girlfriend fall more in love with you with each new day? Use these 21 tips suggested by women, and you’ll make her day, every day! By Lianne Choo frm lovepanky.com

It is an urban myth that women are hard to please. Just because your last relationship involved the Wicked Witch of the West does not mean that all women should be pegged as evil bloodsucking creatures. When you find the perfect woman for you, you will know just what it means to be in a grownup relationship. Only then will you be able to appreciate the genius and grace of the female race.
The same way women struggle to find the man of their dreams, men find it hard to find the perfect woman. However, even after you do, always remember that no matter how great things are going, you can always make it better!
There are plenty of ways to prove to your girlfriend that you love her. In turn, she will adore and appreciate you even more, making the relationship so much more fulfilling.
21 things you do that’ll make your girlfriend adore you even more!

Saturday 11 April 2015

13 Types of Relationships: Which One Are You

Our relationships are unique to us and also unique in the way they annoy our friends. Figure out which relationship type yours is and how your friends see you.
There are so many types of relationships… really, there are a lot. They range from the rom com version and the foodies to the cos-players, even to that annoying couple that somehow always manages to throw the perfection of their magical union in your face…WE GET IT, YOU’RE IN LOVE! But the death defying loop question we must all ask in our lifetimes is which relationship type am I? And exactly how much do I irritate my poor defenseless friends?

How to Deal if your girlfriend is a jealous type



Jealousy, an intense emotion when unchecked or stopped in the initial stages can cause irrevocable harm to the person who experiences this emotion. It can also probably put an end to all his/her relationships. Jealousy is one such emotion which raises its ugly head time and again, afflicting either a boy or a girl romantically involved with each other. We have heard of many acts of recklessness a boyfriend had to deal with because of his jealous girlfriend. Why does my girlfriend constantly experience bouts of jealousy? Is it something I say or do? A girl getting a wee bit jealous when her boyfriend looks at other attractive girls is a natural phenomenon, but if this jealousy assumes abnormal proportions, then it's time to take quick action!
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10 Questions to Ask in a New Relationship

The beginning of a relationship is a time of great excitement. you are on the verge of something wonderful and you cannot wait to be with your beloved. no matter how crazy you are about each other, it is best to bring a little practicality into the picture too. so before you decide that you are ready to be known as a couple, here are ten questions you better thrash out with your partner.
  1. What are your values in life? By now you must have had a few engaging conversations with your partner. The main purpose of these talks is not merely to kill time before you two can get between the sheets but really to know how each of you thinks about life. If you have not yet had any meaningful exchanges, do so without delay. Inquiring about your partner’s values in life will give you a fair idea about the qualities that he/she holds dear since these not only define the person he/she is, but will to a large extent influence the choices he/she makes. For instance if your date is religious, it is likely he/she will want to celebrate holidays and religious occasions in

Sunday 5 April 2015

14 Signs You’re Dating The LADY You Should Marry


1. She supports your dreams and makes an effort to help you achieve them in any way she can.
2. She loves your friends and regularly asks about them. You guys don’t even care that much about having “guys night” because she can hang no matter what’s happening.
3. She still texts you naughty little somethings. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been dating she still sends you flirty texts and let’s you know how bad she’s been wanting you all day.
4. You’re more than just her boyfriend and she’s way more than just your girlfriend. You’re in a partnership. Both of you actively play a role in your relationship to make it the best it can be.
5. You can tell her anything. There’s nothing you ever feel like you need to hide from her. Ever.
6. You want to take care of her. You feel that natural instinct to want to love her and protect her even if you know she can completely handle her own.