To all my Nigerian brothers and sisters
I am, always have been, and always will be proud of my Nigerian heritage. I understand the pain and anger caused by some of the comments I made in a recent interview, and I wanted to address you directly. Contrary to popular belief, this interview was not the first in which I mentioned Nigeria. In fact, I’m frequently bragging about how Nigerians attend the world’s most prestigious institutions, and how we are known to produce world class doctors, entrepreneurs, innovators, lawyers, engineers, professors, athletes and artists. Unfortunately, people tend to leave these moments out, and, in this case, highlight stereotypes. I would never do or say anything to intentionally disgrace the legacy of my father nor my fatherland. But to not relay my own story, both the good times and the bad, would be a disservice.
Jidenna and late dad |
When
I was 5 years old, my family was robbed at gunpoint, my mother was
beaten, family members were kidnapped, and I was shot in my foot. As is
the case with all kidnapping, targeting those who are perceived to be
wealthy is the objective. In this instance, my father was the target
because of his prominence in the community. This was a traumatic
experience for my family that would shape our entire lives and our
experiences in both Nigeria and America. As a little boy, I swore that I
would never let that happen to my family again. As my father often
said, “Once you’re bitten by a snake, you‘ll be ready to shoot a
lizard!” At the time of my father’s burial 5 years ago, my family in the
village was concerned about increased targeting for kidnapping since
the rate of abductions had increased dramatically in the area we are
from. We were traveling from America, which along with our biracial
appearance, had the potential to attract attention and pose a threat to
our security. In light of what happened in the past and the tense
climate at the time, my family took precautions to ensure our safety.
This was not an uncommon protocol at the time. I recognize incidents
such as these are not unique to Nigeria or the African continent, and
there have been significant improvements in the region since this
period.
In the recent interview to
which I’ve been referring, I shared my family’s experience traveling
from the States back home for the burial. In this interview, I used the
term “light-skinned.” When using this term, I was actually referring to
my immediate family’s mixed or biracial appearance. See, no matter what
language I use to describe my heritage, I’m certain that someone will
feel some kind of way. This is a larger discussion not meant for this
statement, but certainly derives from our colonial past and postcolonial
present, and in the States, from the days of slavery to the present
times. My comments about skin tone were related to the notion of
perceived wealth and value, not my personal beliefs. My point was never
to imply that biracial or “light-skinned” people are the only ones or
the most targeted group of people kidnapped, or that I myself was
wealthy at the time. Rather than focus on my perceived value, let us
continue to focus on the value of Nigeria.
There
is no question that Africa is playing a pivotal role in the future of
our planet and that Nigeria, with it’s booming economy and burgeoning
middle class, is a driving force. I will continue to play my role in the
Renaissance taking place in Nigeria and Africa at large. We may not
agree on everything, but know my heart is your heart, and my experience
is part of our collective experience.
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